great article on NATURAL CONSEQUENCES this can also work for natural rewards too, ex: you put your shoes and socks on. Children learn so much more from their own experiences then you can ever teach them.
Stop Whining - How to Stop Your Kids, Babies, or Toddlers from Whining
pinner said: Holy Cow! A great website for people who want more than PBIS lessons alone. This is a resource for teaching emotional responsibility to children. Marvelous in online or brick and mortar schools.
Calm-downs vs. Time-outs. Time-outs are used to punish and shame, but a calm-down helps kids deal with intense emotions. Calm-downs are a healthy and positive discipline approach for both parents and children. Love this guide for parents!