Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.
True for so many things.depression, pain, losing those closest to you. Right now the love of my life is gone and i don't expect you to understand.I hope you can`t, because then you have never been through it.