unfortunately this is true. but then it isn't a true test of friendship if you wave goodbye so easily. yet if you are unable to challenge yourself by lifting a finger, then do your friend a favor and be honest about it.
There are things you don’t want to happen, but have to accept, things you don’t want to know, but have to learn, and people you can’t live without but have to let go. Some circumstances and people come into your life just to strengthen you.