Hard to do for someone who over-analyzes EVERYTHING! But its important to get this straight in your head. You can move past the surface and try to understand the deeper workings of someone elses actions when you take yourself out of the equation.
Finding the courage to be vulnerable and honest about not being OK and having a supportive partner accept me, love me, and meet me exactly where I am no matter what. That's a game changer of epic proportions.