The biggest turn off is when a man can't do man things. One of my biggest pet peeves is a man who would rather pay someone to do something he should be able to do. So yeah a man who can do man things, is beyond sexy!
They say the one thing men lie most about on dating sites is their height - I found that to be oh so true. Love my tall, handsome, strong man; feel so safe in his arms looking up at his wonderful eyes.