If you have a flower, don& pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation -Osho-
Jealousy is nothing more than fear of abandonment. If you are feeling an uncomfortable or disruptive amount of jealousy, then it's a sign that there is something wrong with the relationship. You abandoned yourself because of your jealousy.