de Jong Dream House: Reward and Consequence Jars. Non-chore consequences to avoid associating family responsibilities with punishment. And non-food related rewards to encourage a healthy relationship with food.
The Consequence Jar. That sounds pretty ominous, doesn& it? It& actually very effective at our house. It is a magical jar that saves me from loosing my mind and voice daily. The jar is full of little tasks the kids have to perform.