Yes, love is all about sacrifice and compromise, but it's important also to establish a limit. You shouldn't have to throw your whole life away to make a relationship work. If you have to lose yourself to please your partner, you're with the wrong person.
Integrity is choosing your thoughts and actions based on values rather than personal gain. You need integrity to STAY in God. Because whatever you do for your personal gain will KEEP you in pride not in CHRIST.
Never discredit your gut instinct. You’re not being paranoid. Your body can pick up vibrations, some better than others, and if something deep inside you says something’s not right about a person or situation, trust it.